Phyllis Jean Graham passed Aug 30th, 2026, at the age of 70, leaving behind a legacy of warmth, laughter, and devotion. Born on July 21st, 1956, in Bells, Texas to Cecil and Betty Seagroves. She attended school in Guthrie, OK. She spent her life weaving a vibrant tapestry of family, joy, and unforgettable memories. On Jan 14th, 1974, she married her companion and loving husband of 52 years, Darrold Graham Sr, building a lifetime of shared dreams, unwavering support, and an enduring love that served as the bedrock of their massive, bustling family. Together, they raised 5 children teaching them the values of love, resilience, and humor. She worked for many years as a CNA and CMA. Her family was her absolute world. As the proud matriarch, she was the adored Gigi of 22 grandchildren and a devoted great-grandmother of 7 great-grandchildren. She took her role as the family's biggest fan very seriously—which frequently included playfully "stalking" her children and grandchildren’s Facebook pages to stay up-to-the-minute on their lives, drop loving comments, and ensure she never missed a single moment of their milestones. When she wasn't keeping tabs on her beautiful family online, she found peace and joy in life's simple pleasures. She loved the quiet patience of fishing, casting lines into the water, and enjoying nature. She was a master of patience in other ways too, spending countless hours creating beautiful pieces through crocheting and sharp-mindedly conquering endless books of word searches. Her home was filled with comfort and entertainment. She loved going to auctions and loved settling in to watch her favorite TV shows, and she never missed the excitement and music of the CMT Awards, which she looked forward to every year. She loved reading books and spending time with family, and taking care of her ponies. She was a wonderful, vibrant woman who loved fiercely, laughed easily, and made everyone around her feel uniquely cherished. She would never let you leave their home or hang up the phone without saying "I love you" and would always wave at the window when anyone left. Her spirit will live on in the stories told around family tables, the cozy blankets she stitched, the fishing spots she loved, and the digital notifications her family will forever miss seeing. She will be profoundly missed, but her love remains an anchor for us all. She is preceded in death by her parents, 3 sisters Dorthy, Connie and Trina and 1 brother David. She is survived by her loving husband of the home Darrold Graham Sr, 5 children Darrold Graham Jr and wife Evelyn, Tim Graham and wife Jessica, Amanda Graham and significant other Mel Shupe, Jeff Graham, Jeromy Graham and wife Crystal. 22 grandchildren Ashley, Janetta, Austin, Brettney, Aaron, Corinna, Adam, Victoria, Caden, Cameron, Sydney, Jozee, Tavon, Liam, Chloe, Hunter, Ayden, Hailey, Tanner, Parker, Preston, Hannah and 7 great grandchildren Kailor, Ropyr, Brenley, Naomi, Jeremiah, Ryann, Hudson, 2 brothers Cecil Seagroves Jr and wife Dorthy, Tommy Seagroves and 2 sisters Judy Graham and husband Bob, Lenora Poer and husband Mark. Many nieces, nephews and kids who thought of her as their grandma. Family request that any donations be made directly to Darrold Graham Sr. Family and friends will gather for services Friday Sept 4th at 11am in Morrison, OK at the Red building located at 905 US-64, Morrison, OK 73061. Any flowers will need to be directed through Morrison Flower Shop.